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bulletin board policies
guidelines for area
TOS
BDSM online
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THRVPashun: hello everyone:) We will be starting our "Different Loving" chat at 11 pm ET:) I hope everyone had a super weekend:)

THRVPashun: Great to see you all here tonight:)

THRVBuja: Welcome everyone to our first Kinky Chat!

Guest 1: cool!

THRVPashun: Great, Guest 1

THRVBuja: Allow me to begin by introducing Mistress... uh, I mean, Ms. Gloria Brame!

THRVBuja: <<<>>>

THRVGloryB: Mistress will do. :-)

Guest 1: saw her play... AMAZING!!!!!

THRVPashun: ::clapping wildly::

THRVBuja: We are going to try *not* using protocol that means you all can talk among yourselves and make comments in the bottom of the screen...

Guest 2: clapping also

Guest 3: Mistress will do? LOL suuurrrre

THRVBuja: I will repost questions you have to the top of the screen and she will answer them.

Guest 4: For her, I'll make the exception :-)

THRVBuja: Let me also say it is great to have all of you here. as many of you know, it has been a long time that AOL has not had a place for folks to go discuss BDSM in a comfortable environment. I for one am very excited! So, let us begin... Gloria, any opening words?

Guest 3: If no one has a burning question...i'll throw one out here

Guest 4: Leonard of Leonard and Victoria in Different Loving: the book :-)

Guest 1: gloria.. i met you last spring in atlanta at spring in the south at the KPOG party

Guest 4: Guest 3, your question?

Guest 3: I'd rather wait till Gloria has had a chance to speak : )

THRVGloryB: Nothing momentous... Just to thank everyone for coming here tonight and that I'm willing and ready to answer any questions you might have about anything in the world related to bdsm--whether it's political concerns, how-to questions, or anything else.

THRVBuja: *Any* questions? This should be good! :)

Guest 1: gloria.. i met you last spring in atlanta at spring in the south at the KPOG party

THRVPashun: Guest 3, go ahead:)

THRVGloryB: So with that--I'd be happy to start questions.

Guest 3: Buja mentions that there has been a lack of bdsm "comfie places" on aol... I agree...until recently that is and there is a wonderful place that we have been posting in... what are your intentions for this area? i will openly say that i am skeptical

THRVBuja: Guest 3, are you speaking of Kinky Pleasures at Thrive?

THRVGloryB: I can speak mainly to my intentions for the Sunday night chat not necessarily the editorial content of everything in Kinky Pleasures In other words--I hope to make this chat a place where everyone who is *sincere* about bdsm, d&s, fetishism or whatever you do can have truly adult conversations about what we do. By sincere I mean people who seriously want to learn, honestly debate, and share their experiences about our kind of sexuality.

Guest 3: I was more asking about the bulletin boards...but i'm interested in your view on either follow-up...how would you define "sincere"?

Guest 4: How do you plan to influence or control the chat?

THRVGloryB: I expect that in an open area, like AOL (and as I experienced when I ran the group on Compuserve yrs. back), that we must expect a certain amount of voyeurs and poseurs and wannabe's, etc. That's the price of having a truly open, public forum. There will always been some jerks. But we hope that by having moderators here and a stern Mistress at the helm :-) (and former schoolteacher! cracking whip!) we can maintain the focus on SERIOUS talk.

THRVPashun: Who has another question?

THRVBuja: Guest 3, I wonder if you could tell us what it is you are skeptical about.

Guest 4: May we cut to the chase--the bulletin board regulation issue? That's why so many people are here today

Guest 3: I am skeptical that this new bdsm area will be sufficiently open

Guest 5: What other literature have you authored other than Different Loving...Do you put out a weekly column somewhere literature

THRVBuja: When you say you are worried about it being open enough, what are you worried will happen?

THRVGloryB: I'd like to say something about the openness. I read through the messages on ACLU, and I'd like first to comment that I don't see any reason why there can't be more than one venue for bdsm support/chat, etc.

Guest 3: and by that i mean tolerant of the different types of personalities as well as their individual opinions on bdsm and other topics...done..thank you

THRVGloryB: Moderators, please correct me if I am wrong

THRVBuja: I totally agree with Glory... there is no reason that there has to be *one* place to go...

THRVPashun: That is correct :)

THRVGloryB: but my take on THRIVE is that it is NOT like a conventional chat area, and certainly nothing like Usenet, because it is under the aegis of a magazine.

Guest 4: I think that is the source of some of the fears

THRVBuja: Okay, I can definitely speak to some of these fears...

Guest 3: i agree...there is no reason for there to be *one* place...i am here out of curiosity (mixed with skepticism) more than anything this divided screen is confusing LOL

THRVGloryB: I believe the goals here are to provide (a) a weekly chat, which I host, which is essentially unrestricted--keeping in mind certain bounds of good taste. (Not so very different, really, from a TES meeting, right Guest 4?) In other words, no gratuitous obscenity, etc.

THRVPashun: We are all getting used to it, Guest 3:)

THRVGloryB: I believe the informational areas which my boss, Dr. Gardos, oversees will serve as general resources for *all* people interested in our lifestyle

Guest 3: what is gratuitous?

THRVBuja: Thrive is very committed to providing a place for the open exchange... as long as we don't run afoul of AOL and TOS, we should be okay :)

THRVPashun: Guest 1, your question:)

Guest 3: what if a Mistress posted about affixing clothespins to her subs penis or scrotal sack...is that obscene? oops..sorry...shutting up

Guest 1: i want to know what is meant by the term gratuitous and is it a screen for TOS

THRVBuja: Okay, here are the "biggies" that will cause a post to be hidden:

Guest 3: gmta, Guest 1 ; )

Guest 4: listening Buja

THRVGloryB: Gratuitous is the exact same criterion I apply to all my writings. I'm not afraid of any words, but neither would having someone come in and curse for shock effect be particularly appealing.

THRVBuja: the use of obscenity (that means curse words), clinical terms like... penis and scrotum are okay...

Guest 4: how about cock and balls ac?

THRVGloryB: Guest 4, are we speaking of yours?

Guest 1: and things like cunt and excrement?

THRVBuja: cock and balls *in context* are fine... the issue is appropriateness... there is a big difference between talking about cock and ball torture... and calling someone a "cock"...

Guest 6: I am most concerned about the "personal attack" clause of TOS, that is the one that seems to be misinterpreted most often by over zealous board monitors what is your definitions of a personal attack?

Guest 1: and just what are the parental controls?

THRVBuja: as far as "personal attack" we will have to hide "attacks" of individuals, but not ideas... these are not our rules, but AOL... if we don't follow them, then we all lose once the site is shut down... Agreed that all of this is open to interpretation...

Guest 6: that is exactly what we were told in other areas

Guest 1: where is the LINE?

Guest 3: yes

Guest 6: that is open to interpretation

Guest 4: what will your procedure be for someone who steps over the line? is there appeal??

Guest 1: and what about your statement that all of what we say here can be used in your publications?

THRVBuja: and there will be times when I am sure that there will be misunderstandings... we will send an email to anyone whose post we have to remove... and explain *why* so that they can be careful about how they phrase things in the future.

Guest 6: so, I can say "having sex without a condom is stupid", but not "you are stupid for having sex without a condom ", right?

Guest 1: buja//we have seen and heard that before

THRVGloryB: I would like to make a comment, folks.

Guest 1: i , for one, don't want my posts removed

THRVGloryB: I think you should give us a try. I don't think you should abandon your sanctuary until you feel confident that this place really can serve your needs.

THRVBuja: I know that many of you are rightly untrustful... all I can say, is give us a try, and see if this serves your needs. This should not be a competition between areas... we are not asking you to use us alone.

Guest 1: oh really?

Guest 3: abandon? not likely

Guest 1: you have just said that you will remove posts

THRVGloryB: If that day never comes, then you will still feel secure that you are getting what you want. I agree with Pashun!

THRVPashun: Buja, Glory and I are committed to make this work for all of you:)

Guest 1: why?

Guest 4: I don't know Buja or Pashun (I think) but I know Gloria and her credibility is on the line on this one..and she knows that

THRVGloryB: I'm a serious person, and especially serious about bdsm

Guest 6: I don't think any of us see this as a competition between areas

Guest 1: i have met gloria.. but

THRVGloryB: I agreed to do this because I think it could turn out to be extremely incremental in getting bdsm more widely accepted

Guest 6: I would love to have an area where AOL's parental controls can be used to keep minors out.

Guest 3: Guest 1 asked a question about the use of materials posted here...could you possibly address that as well as what will be considered "off topic"?

Guest 6: What controls are in place here to help keep minors from reading and posting here?

THRVBuja: This entire area is rated to keep out minors, if parental controls are turned on, they can't get here.

THRVGloryB: No one here at the Kinky Pleasures project is hoping for anything BUT a free hand in providing the community with a fantastic resource. Will we succeed? We can't promise you that. We can't promise you it because we work for other people.

Guest 6: That is the best reason to come here, in my opinion. If minors can be kept out.

THRVPashun: Guest 1, please go ahead:)

THRVBuja: But, we'll do our best... promise :)

Guest 1: who actually owns this board?

THRVGloryB: Right! We will do our best. That's all we can promise.

Guest 9: Hi

THRVGloryB: Guest 1, think of this as an electronic version of People Magazine That's what THRIVE is--just it doesn't have a print edition.

Guest 1: and who makes money from it? and how?

Guest 4: Sorry, I don't read or buy People mag.. in what way?

THRVGloryB: Oh, dear. :-) I'll try again: THRIVE is like any big corporate magazine (Time, Newsweek, People, whatever!)

Guest 6: Did you mean that People Magazine owns this area?

Guest 9: what is BDSM?

THRVPashun: Guest 7, please ask your question:)

Guest 7: i would like to discuss the long term effects of using power boxes and attachments..

THRVGloryB: THRIVE is an independent magazine.

THRVBuja: Folks, this is a wonderful opportunity to discuss kink, bdsm, and talk with Gloria Brame... isn't that what... we would like to talk about? :)

Guest 1: you have NOT answered me

THRVPashun: Absolutely, Buja:)

Guest 5: I agree

Guest 3: There are several previous questions still on the table : )

THRVGloryB: Guest 1, you can contact THRIVE directly.

Guest 2: <----thought we were here to discuss BDSM.

THRVGloryB: You asked who owns this area: the answer is THRIVE magazine.

THRVBuja: Questions about policy can be directed to THRVSexDoc@aol.com BobINooch: Glory-What is your def. of kinky?

Guest 1: i for one want to know more about the ownership of the board and what is the financial incentive to keep it going

Guest 10: hehehe

THRVPashun: Shall we proceed with questions?:)

THRVGloryB: I've lost track of which question is next.

Guest 5: I don't care if they make a profit from this..I'm here for information

THRVPashun: Guest 8, you are next:)

Guest 8: thanks.... my question is, how is information about this site getting out to the BDSM community i've been part of BDSM on AOL for three years and I had never heard of this till today

Guest 1: Guest 8... ?

Guest 7: where is my answer....as far as i can tell it's the only BDSM question that's been asked... mine was/.... power boxes?....hello???

Guest 12: Guest 8, today is the debut ... there's a reason for that.

THRVGloryB: Okay, thanks, Guest 8. Tonight is very first chat--and the site itself was only launched a couple of days ago. I've promoted it widely on my Website.

THRVBuja: my question is, how is information about this site getting out to the BDSM community i've been part of BDSM on AOL for three years

THRVBuja: We have a question about power boxes... and power attachments. Any thoughts?

THRVGloryB: Guest 8, that's because we've just started!

Guest 5: What are they

THRVGloryB: Power boxes? Do you mean violet wands?

Guest 3: yes...don't play with electricity unless you know what you are doing

Guest 7: i wanted to know of any possible long term nerve damage... pes boxes...yes

Guest 4: I Assume TENS, P E S boxes, etc

Guest 8: Guest 7 to get into the que for questions, you type a ? -- it's called protocol

THRVGloryB: Electroplay is not for everyone, and it is especially not for someone who doesn't know the basic safety rules (like avoiding the chest area)

THRVPashun: Guest 8... he sent a ? earlier:)

Guest 8: ok :) he seemed a bit ... impatient?

Guest 7: thanks pashun

THRVPashun: I think everyone is eager to ask questions...we will get to them:)

THRVGloryB: Violet wands are generally safe (very safe in the hands of those who really know how to use them)

THRVPashun: Guest 9, your question please:)

THRVGloryB: if you don't get informed about it, though, you can run various risks (including skin burns) Washington State Univ. runs a very good database on a vast range of bdsm play including safety info. Okay. next question?

Guest 9: Yes i am 18 and have a 21 girlfriend and she is into BDSM and i hardly know anything about it how can i improve my knowledge about this and help pleasure her more using BDSM?

THRVBuja: The question is: improve my knowledge about this and help pleasure her more using BDSM?

THRVGloryB: Guest 9, my first piece of advice to everyone new to this is: READ, READ, READ

Guest 4: I have some electricity info on my web site. May I give the URL?

THRVGloryB: There are many very good books out there now, covering all aspects of what we do.

THRVBuja: Thank you for asking Guest 4.. yes you may.

Guest 9: sure i would love any info available.

THRVGloryB: I recommend you browse the kinky book list in the bondage.faq on UseNet

Guest 10: Guest 11 may take my turn.....My Q was answered, Thanx!

THRVPashun: Thank you Guest 10:)

Guest 4: Without Restraint..online http://www.mcsp.com/toc.html

Guest 11: what is your opinion of d/s relationships that start online?

Guest 4: has a page on electricity- mostly links to those who know more than me

THRVBuja: Question is: what is your opinion of d/s relationships that start online?

THRVGloryB: Guest 9, also, if you haven't visited, my website has extensive links to just about everything kinky (including bookshops) on the Net. There are links throughout Kinky Pleasures to get you there. Okay. Next?

Guest 9: thanx

THRVBuja: what is your opinion of d/s relationships that start online?

THRVPashun: Guest 3, your question please:)

THRVGloryB: Well, since I met my husband Will on-line...I approve! :-) Will joined Variations II (on compuserve) about 9 1/2 yrs. ago and we followed the same basic tradition: public msgs, to private email, to phone, to rl.

Guest 11: I mean can there be a bona fide d/s relationship online?

Guest 3: My question was related to operational issues...copyright and on topic guidelines...but since you have referred us elsewhere for those questions...i will simply add that electrical play should not just be read about, but should be observed

THRVGloryB: Yewl, good point. Watching an electroplay scene is very helpful.

THRVGloryB: In fact--back to Guest 9--after you check out the on-line resources, see if you can find a bdsm outreach group in your local area and consider joining.

Guest 3: i think its not only helpful, Glory...but essential

THRVPashun: Guest 13, please ask your question :)

Guest 13: i'm wondering if there are any reasonable statistics as to how many people are involved in various aspects of D/S...(i won't confine it to age play switches or transgenders )

Guest 1: night

THRVGloryB: There you will be able to meet others like your girlfriend and learn how bdsm relationships can develop into strong, loving and deeply intimate partnerships.

THRVPashun: Thanks for joining us, Guest 1:)

THRVGloryB: Guest 11--are you asking whether an on-line relationships without any 3D time, can still be considered "legitimate" D&S?

Guest 11: yes with a future meeting the goal

THRVGloryB: I am of two minds on this subject, Guest 11. I know as well as anyone that an on-line relationship is very real to the people having them. Certainly it evokes many of the same profound emotions we have off-line. Indeed for some of us very imaginative types (and D&Sers do tend to be imaginative! :-) an on-line love affair can feel realer at times than real life. But I do feel that sooner or later the 3D component must enter into it. Only then can you know for sure whether the relationship has a real long-term future. Does that answer it for you, Guest 11?

THRVPashun: Guest 14, your question please:)

Guest 11: yes that's true of any relationship thanks

THRVBuja: I think Guest 13 is still waiting for an answer :)

Guest 14: thanks... is there a similarity in personality between Doms and Subs? are D/s relationships just as likely to be monogamous?

THRVGloryB: Guest 13, what was your question again?

Guest 14: as non D/s

Guest 13: i wonder if you have any statistics as to the number of people actually involved in D/S (and i included a snippy little aside about not confining my question to either tg/DS or age play switches) then I ducked

THRVGloryB: Ah, statistics! To my knowledge there are no reliable statistics. I can cite the data which various sexologists have reported (such as Kinsey) but whether these data are valid is up to some dispute!

Guest 13: cool. i hadn't seen anything reliable...and was wondering if you had. Thank You

THRVGloryB: Personally, I can tell you--from talking to people, researching it, writing about it, etc. that I believe more adults have experimented with *some* aspects of D&S than have not. The problem in developing accurate stats is that most people who do a little D&S (like bondage, for example) don't think they're doing D&S. Next?

Guest 4: Sorry, but back to nuts and bolts of your new boards. if I put a copyright notice on my posts will it be honored? or is anything posted fair game to be published without credit or remuneration to the authors

THRVPashun: Guest 14, you can ask your question again next:)

Guest 4: I was in the queue

THRVGloryB: I saw Guest 14's question.

Guest 4: if you please..

THRVPashun: yes, you were after Guest 14:)

THRVGloryB:

Guest 14, I'm not sure I understand the first part (about similarities between dom & sub) but yes, certainly, D&Sers can and do form monogamous relationships

Guest 4: k

Guest 14: ok first are there similarities between Doms and subs, are D/s relationships more or less likely to be monogamous than non D/s the personality question is do you think they are more similar than different

THRVGloryB: Not everyone who does D&S is in the Scene. People in the Scene do tend to attend play-parties and do SM with other people (though even then, most couples will only have sex with one another). Guest 14, that's a metaphysical question! :-) Are yin and yang more similar than different? Dominants and submissives complement one another.

Guest 14: ok well is there a profound difference or not a less obvious one?

Guest 14: yes I guess it is metaphysical

THRVGloryB: Next question was Guest 4, I believe?

THRVPashun: yes:)

Guest 4: if I put a copyright notice on my posts will it be honored? or is anything posted fair game to be printed or quoted without attribution or remuneration

THRVBuja: I think I can take this one...

THRVGloryB: Go ahead, Buja.

THRVBuja: technically speaking, anything you post does become usable... by AOL or Thrive, however.. if you put in a notice that you would rather your name not appear... or that you deny permission to reproduce, we will *not* use it. We don't need that legal nightmare, trust me :)

Guest 4: Thank you. Those of us who live, even in part, by the sale of our words and thoughts appreciate that

THRVPashun: :)

THRVPashun: Guest 15, please ask your question :)

Guest 15: As in the sexual areas of their lives, do dominant partners tend to dominate in other areas of their lives, such as on the job, or in friendships, or even in the other areas of their relationship w/their partner? same for submissive partners?

THRVGloryB: Guest 15? I believe you're next.

Guest 7: of the various organizations in atlanta..which do you feel offers the best environment..PEP..KPOG..Sanctuary.?

THRVPashun: Guest 15 has a question first:)

Guest 15: ummm..... ok. sure

THRVGloryB: Woops! Well let me quickly answer Guest 7 (apologies)

THRVGloryB: Guest 7, each of those organizations offers something quite different. If you're looking primarily to play, well, that's KPOG's focus PEP offers educational outreach. The play is just one part of the reason they get to together, that is. Sanctuary offers one of the nicest physical spaces for play. I've used their private rooms for scenes with my sub. Very pleasant!

THRVGloryB: Guest 15, back to you now.

Guest 7: so have i..thanks...

Guest 15: need me to repeat?

THRVGloryB: Ironically, it's often submissives who have the most energy

Guest 7: sorry Guest 15

Guest 15: no prob, Guest 7

THRVGloryB: A fair number of doms tend to be more laid back about life.

Guest 15: does that hold true in the other aspects of the relationship, such as money matters, etc?

THRVGloryB: It's something of a truism that sub men are career over-compensators and there are few creatures so intimidating in the workplace as some of our feisty fem subs. :-) In the individual relationship, it's usually another matter! Doms are the decision makers. Okay, Guest 15?

THRVPashun: after Guest 15, our last question will come from Guest 16:)

Guest 7: night all

Guest 15: thanks.

Guest 16: My master has decided that he wants me to have sex with other men, but I am very uncomfortable with this. I have protested, but he won't change his mind. Up till now, out relationship has been great. Any advice?

THRVGloryB: My first question to you is what kind of a commitment have you made to him?

THRVBuja: Glory, but not *everything* goes right?

THRVGloryB: Are you his completely owned property?

Guest 16: It's a 2 year old, 24/7 relationship.

THRVGloryB: You live together?

Guest 16: Yes.

THRVGloryB: Okay, is the first time you've felt serious resistance to one of his commands?

Guest 4: If you are uncomfortable..my POV--Tell him NO!

Guest 16: Yes. Never have I felt so uncomfortable with a command.

Guest 3: Private rooms in Sanctuary? Its a bulletin board

THRVGloryB: Is your Master willing to hear you out on this? Does he take your input seriously?

Guest 11: I think she was talking about a place to scene in Atlanta Guest 3

Guest 2: Guest 3.. a different Sanctuary.. a club in Atlanta

Guest 3: my apologies LOL

Guest 16: He does, but he believes that he knows best in this area. I am terrified of the idea, though. It is beginning to seriously damage our relationship

THRVGloryB: What worries me is that he is not taking your concerns seriously enough.

Guest 11: shouldn't you have negotiated this as a hard limit?

Guest 16: He has never been this unreasonable before.

THRVGloryB: Are you familiar with the publicly-distributed FAQ on distinguishing abuse from consensual SM? It sounds like your Master is treading a very thin line here.

Guest 16: I've not read the FAQ

THRVBuja: Glory, can you give her a url where she might find a link to that FAQ?

THRVGloryB: I think it's time for you to sit down and think very carefully about his judgment is really trustworthy. This is a terrible situation for any slave but it must be faced head on and FAST. If you go along with it this time, other, worse, experiences may lay ahead of you.

Guest 16: I just don't know how to approach it. I want to save the relationship if I can, but I don't think I could obey him if he pressed it

THRVGloryB: I posted a copy of the "Are You Being Abused" FAQ on my site. http://gloria-brame.com/diflove.htm You can link to it from there.

Guest 16: ok, I will do that.

THRVBuja: If you click on Glory's picture in the top right, it will also lead to a link.

THRVGloryB: Guest 16, you will find support for your concerns in the bdsm community.

Guest 15: if she breaks the relationship, or says that she will if he continues, is she being the dominant partner?

THRVGloryB: A slave deserves to be treated as a precious gem.

Guest 16: He has always been very good to me.

THRVBuja: Well folks, we are over time, and this room will be closing momentarily...

Guest 14: thank you very much

THRVGloryB: I understand. I hope you will still attempt to talk to him about it. Everyone makes mistakes sometimes.

THRVBuja: Thank you for coming and especially thanks to Glory.

Guest 4: Why does it have to close? is there a way to transfer en masse to the AOL chat server?

THRVBuja: We will be here every Sunday night at 11pm ET...

THRVPashun: Thank you Glory and Buja:)

THRVGloryB: Thanks to all for your hard-hitting questions!

Guest 14: yes thanks and good night

THRVBuja: in the meantime, there are the Thrive Sex Chat rooms and the Kinky Pleasures Bulletin Boards :)

THRVGloryB: I hope we can add something to your lives.

Guest 4: Thank you, Glory, Buja, Pashun

THRVPashun: You've all contributed to a very stimulating discussion:)

Guest 11: night Glory

THRVBuja: Thank you to Pashun as well :)

THRVGloryB: Actually, if folks would like to talk to me a

THRVPashun: You are very welcome:)

THRVGloryB: little longer I could go into a THRIVE chat room for a bit.

Guest 17: I second that!

Guest 11: yes

THRVGloryB: <--she who never sleeps.

THRVBuja: Actually Glory...

Guest 6: how do we get there, Gloria?

THRVGloryB: Buja, how do I do that? :-)

THRVBuja: a Thrive chat room is not the best place :) But you are welcome to create a private room in your other screen- name :)

THRVGloryB: Oh! Well is there someplace else? Okay. private it'll be. Oh! My OTHER name. Aha! :-) Okay, my other name is GloryBrame folks. I'll log back under it in 2 minutes.

Guest 11: name of room?

THRVPashun: We look forward to seeing you all next Sunday at 11pm ET :)

Guest 4: in AOL's chat? or Thrive?

Guest 2: Good question.

Guest 6: what will the name of the private room be?

Guest 2: The question is.. where is there?

Guest 11: GloryBrame I'm guessing

Guest 2: I think that is a good guess.

Guest 6: okay let's all meet in a private room called GloryBrame and we can I'M her and tell her where to go

Guest 11: yah

Guest 2: Wickd.. ok.

Guest 17: ok - that would be people connection?

Guest 6: yes Guest 17

Guest 2: Yes Guest 17

Guest 17: ok seeya there

Guest 6: and then select "create private room"

THRVGloryB: Okay folks. Go to People Connection