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Transcript
of Different Loving Conference on AOL for 11-06-98
with Gloria Brame (THRVGloryB) and moderators THRVPashun &
Honey
TOPICS
Gloria's
TV Appearance
What is BDSM
Using Bondage to Heighten Sexual Pleasure
"Rules" of BDSM
Importance of Communication
Knowledge, The Power
Switching
When Your Partner Shows no Interest in a Dom/Sub Relationship
Guest
1: Evenin Ms Glory :-)
Guest 2: ::waving to Pashun::
THRVPashun: hiya all :)
THRVPashun: {{ Guest 2}}
THRVGloryB: Hiya, folks!
Guest 3: Hi Pashun!
Guest 6: ::waves:: hullo.
Guest 1: <--- blows a smooch
to Pash
THRVPashun: hiya Guest3! :)
Guest 3: Hi Glory!
Guest 2: Missed you all
last week
Guest 4: hello all
THRVPashun: smooches, Guest1 and
Guest 5:) KISS KISS, Glory! :)
Guest 1: heya Guest 4
Guest 5: Hi Glory, how are
you? TINK!!!
Guest 3: Hi Tink! : )
Tnkrbell77: Guest5!!
Guest 5: I'm always so glad
to see you here.
Guest 1: Howdy tink :)
Tnkrbell77: hi Guest 3
THRVPashun: {{Tink**}}
THRVGloryB: Oooooh! So affectionate!
(SMMMOOOOCH)
Tnkrbell77: Pashun!
THRVPashun: it's the past full
moon! ;)
THRVGloryB: Not to mention the
exciting events in Washington!
Guest 1: awoooo
THRVPashun: Oh yes!!!!
Guest 4: lol
Tnkrbell77: poor newt
THRVGloryB: YAY!!!!!
Guest 5: lol
THRVGloryB: tink, only you could
feel sorry for a reptile Something small...low-to- the-ground....
Guest 4: ROFL
Guest 6: that depends on
the reptile in question...*chuckle*
THRVPashun: LOL :)
Guest 1: he's not a reptile,
he's an am-fib-ian. Lol
Tnkrbell77: yes.. but without
him the repubs never would have taken the house in 94. :-)
THRVGloryB: Or lost it in '98!
BTW, welcome to everyone, including our newbies. Please feel
free to jump right in.
Tnkrbell77: they haven't lost
it.. just a few weak reps. :-)
THRVPashun: Ladies and gents...Dom/Dommes
and subbies...welcome to our BDSM and kink chat with our lovely,
luscious THRVGloryB:) Please feel free to ask you questions
by typing a ? and make a comment by typing a ! :)
THRVGloryB: I think we're waiting
for our official question lady to show, yes? :-)
Guest 2: always feel like
a newbie hehehe
Tnkrbell77: maybe he will run
for president. Hehe
THRVGloryB: tink--rumor was
that up to 30 Republicans said they'd never back him again in
Congress. His support among his own people is dead. For now,
anyway.
Guest 1: we can only hope
Guest 3: : )
Guest 6: like a lizard,
grows his tail back... but I will not insult my precious scaly
friends.
Tnkrbell77: yes.. the politicians..
they eat their dead.
Guest 3: LOL
Guest 4: tee hee
THRVPashun: Everyone who saw our
Gloria on TV last week raise your hand!!! :)
THRVGloryB: Yep, Guest6. I couldn't
help thinking about Nixon when he lost to JFK, saying the press
wouldn't have him to kick around anymore. Politicians have more
lives than cats.
THRVPashun: <---hand raised :)
it was sooo good! :)
Guest 3: missed it!
Guest 2: Glory was on TV?
shucks :(
Tnkrbell77: <--saw it from the
green room
dang....I missed it
THRVGloryB: Pashie! Did you
see me?
Guest 7: <~~doesn't watch
TV :-(
THRVGloryB: It was a very silly
show! But lots of fun.
Guest 3: what show?
THRVPashun: OH YES!!! You and HGB
were the stars! :)
THRVGloryB: Good for you, Guest7.
Tnkrbell77: silly?
THRVPashun: The hostess and the
others were dolts :)
Guest 6: ::nods at Guest
7:: last time I touched a TV was to put in a tape I bought...
I dont' even get the normal stations *chuckle*...my computer...uh,
that's another thing entirely. and I think I support Waldenbooks
all by myself.
Guest 4: <---is a TV
Guest 2: What show?
Tnkrbell77: <---was hanging
on every word
THRVGloryB: One of the big topics
they debated is whether Ally McBeal is too thin. gack! But,
tink, it's your bounden duty to hang on each of my words.
Guest 2: who is Ally McBeal?
Tnkrbell77: of course.
THRVGloryB: Guest 2--LOL!
Guest 2: what? ::blink::
THRVGloryB: Guest2, I went up
to NYC last week & taped a talk show that ran on the FOX news
channel.
Guest 6: I think the only
reason I ever heard of Ally...was the dancing baby incident...
which I will now promplty return to the dregs of my brain to
be best-forgotten.
THRVGloryB: Ally McBeal is a
popular sitcom, aimed at young women, I believe.
Guest 2: I'm sorry I missed
it Glory
THRVPashun: {{{ Guest8}}}
THRVGloryB: It's okay, Guest2.
You probably don't even get the channel.
Tnkrbell77: err... but .. I
like ally mcBeal.. (blush)
Guest 8: {{{{{{{{{{{Pashun}}}}}}}}}}}}}
{S wolfkiss
Guest 2: LOL
THRVGloryB: Pashie, I thought
Helen Gurley Brown was fabulous! She still kicks tushie.
Guest 8: Hi Glory
Guest 5: We caught it Glory,
HGB was a riot!
THRVGloryB: Hiya, Guest8!
THRVGloryB: Did you like her,
Guest5? She was *so* nice!
THRVPashun: yes, she sure does
:)
Guest 5: she's sweet. I
loved her.
THRVGloryB: Can you believe
she's 77!?! AWESOME.
Guest 5: no kidding.
Guest 2: gosh, I'm so removed
from things :(
THRVGloryB: And (looking meaningfully
at tink) what *incredible* gold jewelry she has. ;-)
Guest 5: awww, maybe they'll
show a rerun Guest2.
Guest 6: {{{{ Guest2}}}}}
I know exactly how you feel.
THRVGloryB: Aw, Guest2, pop
culture really sucks. :-) The good thing about this show, though,
was that although they were hoping to use SM... as an example
of how American morality is falling to pieces, they did let
me contradict them.
Tnkrbell77: oops
Guest 2: thanks Guest5 and
Guest 6:-) I imagined they would...hence you as a guest
THRVGloryB: Come to think of
it...they couldn't shut me up. :-)
Guest 3: LOL
Guest 6: ::grins::
Guest 4: LOL
Guest 6: ...sounds like
me when I get on a pet subject...
Guest 7: Bumper sticker
I saw once...."Turn your TV Off and think for yourself"
THRVPashun: and your hair was....straight!!!
:) LOL
Tnkrbell77: my straight haired
for a day Mistress.
THRVGloryB: Pashie, was that
bizarre or WHAT? I guess I looked too ethnic for their tastes....
with my big mop of Jewish curls. :-) Welcome, Stanly!
Guest 5: hey Guest9.
THRVPashun: smooches Guest 9:)
Glory you were beautiful :)
Guest 9: Hi Guest5! Hi Ms.
Brame Wow..Hi Pashun
Tnkrbell77: not a curl in sight
on Judith's show
THRVGloryB: For those who didn't
see the show, I was on a panel with Helen Gurley Brown (of "Cosmo"
fame)...a gal named Jane Pratt (who founded/run "Jane" magazine),
and a well-known young author... named Elizabether Wurtzel (she
wrote Prozac Nation & a new book, Bitch).
Guest 2: oh my
Guest 9: I saw! Great!
THRVGloryB: Did you enjoy it,
Guest9?
THRVPashun: They didn't impress
me at all :)
Guest 10: hi people can
I join in.
THRVGloryB: What amazes me,
though, is that the two younger women really didn't seem to
identify as feminists AT ALL... it was HG Brown who declared
herself a committed feminist. Not what one would expect from
a Cosmo girl. :-) Hiya, Guest10! Welcome. Jump right in.
Guest 5: Hi Guest10, course
you can.
Guest 6: sure, hop in, they
don't seem to mind *me*...*grin*
Guest 9: I really did.....I
thought that you should have taken them all out clubbing in
the sequel!
Guest 2: In what way?
Guest 10: is this a room
where we can get a little personal.
THRVPashun: Please feel free to
ask a question by typing a ? Guest10 make a comment by typing
a ! :) I will call on you in order :)
THRVGloryB: Guest10, sure! As
long as it's related to BDSM/kinky sex of some kind...everyone's
welcome to get as personal as they like.
Tnkrbell77: Personal sadomasochism
as opposed to impersonal sadomasochism
THRVPashun: oooh the best kind,
Tink :)
Guest 10: please tell me
what is bdsm.
Guest 2: LOL Tink
THRVGloryB: Guest10, that is
bondage & discipline, sadomasochism. That is the main theme
of this weekly conference.
Tnkrbell77: <---likes both kinds
Guest 5: Tink's wound up
tonight. What'd you do to him, Glory?
THRVGloryB: Guest 5--I think
the problem is that tink hasn't been "wound up" all week. If
you get my drift. :-)
Guest 10: never done this
sexually before,
Guest 5: aaah, I see. no
piercings yet then?
THRVGloryB: What did you want
to talk about, Guest10? Guest5, not this week. :-)
Guest 5: Hi Guest11, cute
name.
Guest 11: thank you : )
Guest 10: not not piercings,
can orgasm be reached with bondage. I was under impression that
wasn't allowed
Guest 6: does anyone else
consider getting a pet a form of torture? *blink*
Guest 1: lol depends on
the pet.
THRVGloryB: Guest10, what gave
you the impression that people in bondage couldn't have orgasms?
Guest 6: well, I want a
snake and she's terrified of them *laugh*
Guest 11: ?
Guest 7: ?
THRVGloryB: Yes, Guest11?
Guest 10: I just thought
bondage, wasn't the usual type of touchy feely, sex.
THRVGloryB: Guest10, it all
depends on who's doing it. Some people really enjoy... tying
their partners up and teasing them (sexually)...sometimes to
orgasm. All depends on the couple.
THRVPashun: Guest7, I have you
on the list...you will be next after Guest 11:)
Guest 11: my experience
with bondage has always been using it to HEIGHTEN the sexual
experience, isn't that common?
Guest 5: seems pretty touchy
feely to me : )
Guest 1: lol
Guest 10: is oral sex and
regular intercourse a part of bondage.
THRVGloryB: Now, sometimes the
dominant may be SO mean she might not let her partner come...she'll
just tease him...and torment him...and tease him some more...
until he's moaning and begging for relief.... of course, no
one in this room would ever do that, right?
Tnkrbell77: My mean
Mistress.
Guest 5: lol yeah, I know,
he who laughs last...
Guest 1: quick, get out
the Skinner box, we gotta shrink
Guest 6: *grin* should we
pity you or be jealous of you, Tink?
THRVGloryB: Guest 10--it is
for some couples and not for others. There are no "rules"...
Guest 12: awww poor tink.......*smile*
Tnkrbell77: Guest6.. it depends
on your point of view I guess.
Guest 11: for me, THAT is
exactly what bondage is for... to delay the response
THRVGloryB: which say you should
or shouldn't mix sex and bondage.
Guest 8: Glory I do that
to her does that count?
Guest 8: Glory even dang
paws
THRVGloryB: Guest8--you mean
you sensually tease & torment your partner?
Guest 11: hey room, I think
we are suppose to type a ? first, then wait for her to allow
us to ask that way, we are not all asking things at once, and
we CAN get answers : )
THRVGloryB: Yes, Guest11--I
think a lot of couples really love bondage for that very reason
you can extend foreplay and arousal endlessly that way.
Guest 1: yep, thats the
protocol
Guest 5: oops, THRVHoney
isn't here to keep us in line tonight.
Guest 8: Yes Glory I do.
It takes her to a higher level .
Tnkrbell77: we are in an undisciplined
room.
THRVPashun: I am the top and bottom
tonight :)
Tnkrbell77: Pashun is a switch
tonight.
THRVGloryB: Pashie! How kinky!!
Guest 1: ahh, Pash is a
digital switch...
THRVPashun: LOL :) I love to be
kinky! ;)
Guest 12: Alright Pash......
Guest 9: an interesting
concept dear Pashun!
Guest 11: ?
THRVPashun: Guest11, you can continue
:)
THRVPashun: Guest7 will be next
in line :)
Guest 11: isn't it up to
each partnership to decide what forms of play, sex, etc that
they enjoy? not set rules, like can't do oral AND bondage, etc...
who would write the rules, right?
THRVGloryB: Guest11, that is
the TRUTH. Exactly. It always bothers me when I see folks get
their knickers in a twist...(or panties in a knot, for the Southerners)...
trying to make up hard & fast rules about the "thou shalts"
of SM...
Guest 8: Guest11 it is.
I know we discuss everything that we will do
Guest 11: I think it is
essential... and a common misunderstanding with D/s
THRVGloryB: IMO, the only important
rule is "play safe".
Guest 6: "Thou shalt not
make any unflexible rules...?" besides that one, of course ^_^
THRVGloryB: Guest 11--why do
you think people try to create such rules?
Guest 5: lol
Guest 8: But I perfer we
both discuss what will happen during the love making session
THRVGloryB: Of course, Guest6!
:-)
Guest 11: many people thing
D/s or SM is someone MAKING someone else do things, not consensual
Guest 8: True Guest11.
THRVGloryB: Guest 8--do you
discuss it beforehand? Or as you go along?
Guest 11: when I read your
book Different Loving... the most important message I got was
both should get off on it
THRVGloryB: That's what I believe
whole-heartedly, Guest11.
Guest 11: I think each couple
should create their own rule, and not care what others think
Guest 8: Glory we discuss
it. Then go along as thing come along. BUT we discuss it first
Guest 6: besides the fact
that if you're a sub it's hard to make the other person do anything.
THRVGloryB: I think both partners
should be equal in this respect: that they get equal amounts
of pleasure... from the bdsm they do together.
Guest 11: but try just one
time not pleasing a sub : )
Guest 3: does it spoil the
flow if you discuss it as you go along?
THRVGloryB: Guest8, I ask because
a lot of people find it very difficult to communicate... their
needs and fantasies to their partners. BDSM forces people to
learn to communicate. It's a necessary skill for us.
Guest 1: ?
Guest 11: !
THRVPashun: Question queue... Guest7
and Guest1...
Guest 7: As a dom/me are
any of you certified in CPR/Frist Aide?
THRVPashun: go ahead with your
comment Guest11 and then we'll take Guest7's question :)
Guest 7: sorry
THRVPashun: that's ok..thanks for
your patience :)
Guest 2: good question Guest
7
Guest 2: lol
Guest 8: Glory believe me.
My lover and I do not have a problem discussing our fantasies.
THe only one I is a 3 some.
THRVGloryB: Guest7--I have a
certificate in CPR.
Guest 7: :-)
Guest 6: {{ Guest7 }} oh,
thou paragon of patience!
THRVGloryB: Have never had cause
to use it--and haven't gone back for refreshers (probaby should).
Guest 7: I had an experience
recently....Saw that no matter how SS&C we claim to be. The
probability for an accident is ALWAYS there
THRVPashun: Guest11, did you want
to make a comment?
Guest 11: my comment: I
was taught it is ESSENTIAL to discuss needs, and especially
boundaries, limits! and they MUST be discussed BEFORE... no
time during
THRVPashun: Guest1, go ahead with
your question, dear :)
THRVGloryB: Guest11, again,
I agree. It's really helpful if people spend some time...talking
about all those things before they begin playing.
Guest 1: some subs feel
that if they tell the Dom/me what turns them on, that the Dom/me
will be doing it to please the
Guest 11: and??? LOL
Guest 1: sub and not be
motivated by their own desires.
Tnkrbell77: a good point Guest1
Guest 6: ?
Guest 1: I want to know
the hot buttons but I will do as I please. comments?
THRVPashun: Guest6...you will be
next after Guest 1:)
THRVGloryB: Guest1--I think
one of the hardest things for subs to understand...
is what a dom gets out of dominating. Subs have no problem understanding...the
pleasures of control and helplessness, but they don't always
"get"...why a dom would want to do it. So I think they tend
to worry, sometimes obsessively...about whether doms are doing
it because they WANT to... or because it's a kind of humanitarian
gesture on our parts. :-)
Guest 11: !
THRVPashun: yes, Guest11? :)
THRVGloryB: Guest11?
Guest 1: so what can be
done about this issue?
Guest 5: yeah, right. humanitarian.
that's funny glory.
Guest 1: rotfl
Guest 6: well, if they are
dominating just because we want them to, I suppose that would
be humanitarian
THRVGloryB: Guest1--I think,
for one, it's important to let a sub who worries about this...(i.e.,
"if I tell the dom what I want, and s/he does it, does this
mean I'm 'topping from the bottom'")...
Guest 11: dom/mes are not
mind readers, and what is wrong with it being totally mutual
pleasure? I get very aroused when I know my dom is doing something
he knows drives me wild
Guest 6: gee, now that's
a perfect lead-in for my question (whenever I ask it.)
THRVGloryB: that listening to
and considering a sub's needs is part of a consensual arrangement...
but it is NOT a menu (or an agenda) that a dom follows.
Guest 7: <~~ Likes Guest1's
philosophy
THRVGloryB: I want to know what
turns my sub on...because I like owning the power...of being
able to turn him on whenever & wherever I feel like... not because
I see it as my role to facilitate his fantasies.
Guest 1: yes, that's how
I see it too, however, there is a certain sub who does not,
and is resistant...
Tnkrbell77:
THRVGloryB: For me, knowledge
really IS about power.
Guest 1: yes, exactly
THRVPashun: Guest6...you can go
ahead and ask your question :)
THRVGloryB: Guest1--yes, I know
Guest5 has expressed problems over control issues.
Guest 1: thanx :)
Guest 5: psst...tnk...do
you tell her EVERYTHING?
THRVGloryB:
Tnkrbell77: EVERTHING. She insists.
Guest 5: ROFL!!!!! course
you do. I knew that.
THRVGloryB: Tink is an exceptionally
courageous man. It takes a lot of courage to be honest. To be
completely naked with your dom. It is one of the qualities I
love most about him.
Guest 1: <-- listening closely
Guest 5: <--shutting up.
Guest 6: question being...my
lover and I are both new to this (her more so than I) and are
still trying to figure out just what we are...my main problem
is that (from what I like) I'm more of a switch...
Tnkrbell77:
THRVGloryB: (Another quality
I love is the way he always blushes)
Tnkrbell77: oh my
Guest 6: but it's hard to..hmm..(I
am not cetain how to dsay it)...if she is really sincere about
it. but then we are still new to each other. (I think I stumbled
over that question, but that's the best I can put it) is there
any way to really figure out
THRVGloryB: Don't worry about
the words, Guest6. Just tell us what you think/feel. Are you
saying you aren't sure if your partner is sincere? Or that you
feel unsure yourself about which role you prefer?
Guest 6: both!
THRVGloryB: Guest6, I don't
think we can make any judgment on her sincerity...
since she isn't here to speak for herself...
Guest 6: ::nods::
THRVGloryB: as for the switchiness--do
you feel you must select one role? There are many people out
there who enjoy both sides and...establish relationships that
allow them to have both experiences.
Guest 6: I don't want to
select one role, it is rather that I think she is uncomfortable
with having to switch roles.
THRVGloryB: Some people switch
with their (monogamous) partner...and others seek out secondary
relationships, where they can express...a side of themselves
they might not share with their primary partner. Guest6, which
role do you think she prefers?
Guest 6: ::nods:: I've been
in multiple relationships, the main problem is that we're both
rather devoted to each other. She seems to enjoy both, it's
just that she is more hesitant at being dom. and I'm into certain
whether or into that is because she doesn't want to, or just
because we haven't been together
THRVGloryB: Have you talked
to her about that?
Guest 6: yes,only she has
a very hard time talking about it.
THRVGloryB: Guest6--have you
lent her DifLove? :-) Sometimes talking about themes in a book....is
less threatening than talking about oneself.
Guest 6: ::shakes head::
don't have my own copy...I suppose I need to raid waldenbooks
again. I don't know if she has read it or not.
THRVGloryB: Guest6--there are
a number of books out there worth reading...
Guest 11: ?
THRVPashun: Guest11, go ahead :)
THRVGloryB: I always recommend
that as a way to open dialogue in couples...
Guest11? Would you like to add something here?
Guest 11: I have known a
man for several months, I feel strong love for him, I am a sub..
he acts like...he has no interest, and thinks it is a bit kinky...
any suggestions?
THRVGloryB: Guest11--do you
have any reason to believe that he actually IS (or could be)
dom? Also, when you say he thinks it's "a bit kinky," do you
mean he disapproves?
Guest 11: he is naturally
dominate, and very easily could be...I pointed that out to him,
and he did not seem interested I think being dominate means
being mean to me, in his eyes
THRVGloryB: Well the problem,
Myss, is that if *he* doesn't want to act on his dominance...
even if he does have the potential, it may always be a big struggle
between you.
Tnkrbell77: oops.. the old "convert
the vanilla" program. :-(
Guest 11: I think he does
not have a very open mind to exploring what could be, unfortunately
THRVGloryB: A person has to
want it for himself. That's a shame, Guest11. I've known many
people, over the years... who I knew, in my heart, were sub
or dom.... yet they themselves felt so guilty or uptight about
kink... that they simply could never give themselves permission
even to experiment.
Guest 11: no... I don't
want to convert him... I just REALLY miss it and this being
a sexual pleasure, I just can't go out and find ANOTHER dance
partner
THRVGloryB: I understand, Guest11.
But hanging your hopes on someone who... is unable to satisfy
your submissive desires will probably... create a lot of pain
and difficulty for you in the long run.
Guest 5: sure it's not more
than just a sexual pleasure to you, Guest11?
Guest 11: it is all the
pleasures possible, actually - emotional, sexual, physical,
sensual... and since I "came out" I have been determined to
finally explore that
Guest 5: so are you willing
to give all that up???
THRVGloryB: Guest11, does your
friend understand that BDSM is a consensual and (one hopes)
loving relationship? Is he open-minded enough, perhaps, to meet
some of your kinky friends... or to read some books on the subject
to help him understand?
Guest 11: his remarks sound
like he thinks it is just something in my head that I can do
without...for me, it seems in my blood, to my core
Guest 1: ouch...
Guest 11: I can't force
a man to dom me, that is for sure
THRVGloryB: Guest11--I think
most of us in here feel as you do that bdsm is at the core of
our sexual identities.
Guest 5: but you can find
the RIGHT one.
THRVGloryB: But for someone
who doesn't feel that way, it's almost impossible to understand...
they think SM is a choice we make...well, acting on our feelings
may be the choice we make...but we had no choice about having
our feelings.
Guest 1: Guest11, it's a
need that won't go away.
Guest 9: ?
Guest 11: I know it won't
go away, and I don't want to give up, without trying to show
him why it is important to me
THRVGloryB: For us, I think,
the question is simply: do we accept ourselves as we are...and
act on our needs or keep our true selves bottled up and hidden?
THRVPashun: Folks, I am sorry to
say that our time is up for tonight :(
THRVGloryB: Guest9, you're our
last question for the night!
Guest 9: Does anyone think
that passionately rewarding any random dominance would help
to liberate a latent Dom?
Tnkrbell77: Good luck Guest11!!
Guest 1: gasp, over already?
:-((
Guest 11: :)
THRVGloryB: Guest11, I hope
you'll come back and talk more about this...I'd just like to
say one more thing about your situation...be careful not to
try to CONVINCE him of anything. If he doesn't feel it within
himself, chances are he never will...he will--at best--only
do it for your sake. That is not very satisfying to a sub.
THRVGloryB: Guest1--this chat
goes by FAST, no?! Guest9...again, it really depends on the
dominant and whether...she has those urges. Positive re-enforcement
is great...and if those feelings are genuinely latent within
her... then it could lead to success.
Guest 1: a blink. a twink.
a wink of an eye. Eh tink?
Guest 11: I don't want him
to do it, just for me... I would know, and you are right it
would not satisfy - thanks
Tnkrbell77: yes indeed!
Guest 5: lol
THRVGloryB: But you should also
be prepared for the possibility... that the positive re-enforcement
doesn't lead to anything... if she herself is not ready to take
on the role & responsibilities of being dominant. Guest11, we
all feel for you. It's a tough situation to love someone...and
yet not see the kind of sexual compatability one desires. :-(
Anyway, my dear friends.... I think we have drifted way past
the hour!
Guest 5: Good luck, Guest11.
Guest 1: Thanks again Glory.
Nite all. :-)
Guest 9: I was not clear.
I meant that he might suddenly find that he has the right to
be a dom...different than being an abuser
THRVGloryB: Pashie, I guess
we needed Honey to keep us disciplined. :-)
THRVPashun: goodnight all :) Ohhhh
don't let her hear that! :) LOL
Guest 6: discipline is always
good.
THRVGloryB: Ah, I see what you're
saying, Guest9. Yes, if the problem...is that he's guilty or
ashamed, then letting him know he's loved...for doing those
things is the best positive re-enforcement I can think of. Discipline
is always NECESSARY...(at least where tink's concerned )
Guest 9: Yes...some men
are brought up overly protective of women!
Guest 1: snickers...
Tnkrbell77: <--seems to attract
discipline. :-)
Guest 5: lol
THRVGloryB: Well, folks, should
we all say goodbye? :-)
Guest 3: thank you glory!
night all!
Guest 1: <--- eyes Guest5...
THRVPashun: Time for Pashie Poo
to go to beddy bye :) Goodnight dear Glory :) Night everyone
:)
THRVGloryB: tink, you seem to
attract disciplinarians too. ;-)
Guest 5: goodbye Glory,
pash, tink, everyone.
Guest 6: good night, sleep
well, and dream deep.
Guest 1: nite folks
Guest 9: Goodnight everyone!
THRVGloryB: Night all! Thanks
for another great chat!!
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