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1 songchi   2001-10-07 12:36

Is it within the "rules", so to speak, that a submissive may be collared by two different Masters that have made such an agreement between themselves to share one submissive..?

2 firemastersbaby   2001-10-07 19:19

What rules? If there's a BDSM rulebook, i haven't seen it. What works for you and yours determines what the rules are, in your private life.

My opinion.

Peace
firebaby

3 SteelSkys   2001-10-07 20:14

Songchi,

It happens.
I can't see it but that's me.

1. Why would a submissive need to be collared by two?
2. Why would a dominant want his/her submissive collared to another, taking care of another, serving/submitting to another?

But, it happens!

Steel

4 XTwilightsAuraX   2001-10-07 21:51

Hello songchi,

There are no rules within this lifestyle. Everyone pretty much takes what they want and makes it what they wish. However, a coller to me is so personal and deep. More important than any wedding band that one can wear around their finger. My personal preference would be to be owned by only one person...it is different to share...the submissive compared to being collered by many. I feel it takes away the meaning of what the coller really represents. It is a union between 2 people within a circle of trust not between two people and then some.

It is difficult enough to trust one completely never mind 2. I hope this helps.

*~dawn~*

5 fix8ed   2001-10-14 01:13

I would have to agree with XtwilightsauraX (or is it ok to just address you as 'dawn')...collars are personal. I would never be able to serve two Masters, unless of course, my Master asked me too, which he would never do.

He has told me WE (big emphasis on WE) may have another sub one day...possibly, but he will always be the only Master. Ever. That is just fine with me as I have enough to do taking care of him and could not serve two Masters well at all, sexually and non-sexually.

I think some people could do a relationship such as you've described songchi...but the sub needs to be fully aware of what her/his obligations are and what they are wanting out of the relationship, or they could end up getting hurt.

Just my opinion,
fix8ed

6 XTwilightsAuraX   2001-10-14 22:54

fix8ed.....it is totally fine to call me dawn.......I am what I am <giggle>

or maybe I am something else........a brat maybe lmao........or De Brat......<eg> Sir Draco =)~

*~dawn~*

7 songchi   2001-10-15 13:34

Hi all,

 Just so everyone knows, this question was not directed towards myself...i have enough trouble in the two sub area...;-). i posted this "for a friend"...i personally, don't think it will work out too well, but thought maybe my veiws might be a bit clouded by my situation. Thanks for all of the opinions...seems i wasn't so "cloudy" after all...:-)

Be well..
songchi

 

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